Wellbeing
Why Perfectionist Pretenders Persecute Others: An Analysis
Perfectionism can look like high standards, but it often masks inner shame. When perfectionists feel depleted, that mask can turn into persecuting others.
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Wellbeing
Perfectionism can look like high standards, but it often masks inner shame. When perfectionists feel depleted, that mask can turn into persecuting others.
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Meet Amy, your amygdala: a built-in alarm system that remembers every threat. When she becomes overprotective, fear and people-pleasing follow.
Wellbeing
People-pleasing often leads to stress, burnout and low self-worth. Practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries, and how the Pretender Model helps.
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Most people are self-aware on the surface. Real self-awareness means scraping back the layers you've built over time, and it's where all lasting change starts.
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We like to imagine we long for peace, yet many of us seek conflict. For some nervous systems, tension feels familiar and calm feels unsafe.
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People are exhausted. And when somebody is dysregulated, they don't become deeply reflective just because a coach asks a powerful question.
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I’ve spent the last few weeks quietly watching something happen across the coaching industry. More coaching schools are talking about emotional regulation.
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